On almost every sugar baby and sugar daddy website the words "pamper" and "spoil" are everywhere, emphasizing the transactional nature of the relationship.
In my own college and graduate student years, I cannot recall any of the famous teachers with whom I studied saying anything much about it.
Regardless of the strength of your feelings towards a correspondent, you should view any requests for money as highly suspicious.
Not sure how you did it – most never make it this far – but you did it... You’re not yet “dating” in the traditional sense, but you are going on dates.
But after taking initiative by youths, now older peoples have started to adopt their approaches as far as interracial dating is concerned.